A wise trader would start by getting an excellent education in trading stocks. Once a trader has a strong foundation of how to swing and platform position trade stocks, option trading is far easier and much more profitable. I realize that you will have many gurus tell you that all you need to learn is options strategies but frankly, this is misinformation. The option contract follows the stock more closely nowadays due to the high level of professional traders using option contracts for a variety of reasons. Professionals have raised the bar of options trading and thus, retail options traders must also have higher expectations and goals and have more foundational education on stocks than in prior decades.
Good luck with that problem. Im in the same situation. My daughter is 47, i am 67. Since she became an adult at 18 and met the man she later married, she (and him), have treated me like im a bad smell. When she was 30 she told me her father sexually abused her from very young till 11 years old. I was flawed, shocked. I believe most of their behaviour towards me is a way of punishing me for what he did. (Her father and I divorced when she was 12). The last 8 years i have been in a relationship with a man she doesnt like. Hence the reason, i think she currently is having nothing to do with me. For years i phoned her, left messages, sent birthday and xmas cards. I send my 2 granddaughters presents, but rarely hear from them. Ive been depressed, weeks/months/years of tears in private. She spoke to me last 2 years ago at my grand daughters 18th party. Only a few words, no photos of me on fb, but all other family members were featured. It kills me but i cant change her behaviour towards me. I hope you dont go through what i am.